00:00:00 – Intro
00:02:54 – How Dillon Became a Self Starter Who’s Always Growing
00:05:28 – The Importance of Taking Ownership and Questioning Conventional Knowledge
00:07:12 – It’s Not Your Fault, But it’s Your Responsibility
00:07:52 – How to Learn Anything You Want
00:10:19 – Spotting Your Biases, Challenging Assumptions, And the Pursuit of Growth
00:12:47 – How Much Does Intelligence Effect Your Success?
00:13:28 – The Power of Asking Stupid, Crazy Questions
00:15:34 – How to Change Your Reality
00:19:08 – Downscoping Your Problems and Eliminating Binary Thinking
00:20:17 – Finding the Balance Between Learning and Execution
00:26:42 – Separating Emotions From Actions
00:30:02 – A Dangerous Misconception About Hard Work
00:30:41 – Effective Laziness
00:33:51 – Setting Proper Expectations When Building Habits
00:35:52 – Why You Should Steal More
00:38:52 – Dillions Origin Story. From Being a Personal Trainer to Running Multiple Businesses
00:42:58 – Having a Vision of the Life You Want, and Being Willing to Compromise
00:43:26 – How Scalability Dictates Your Path Forward
00:44:39 – Dillon Hitting Rock bottom, Breaking up With His Girlfriend, and Moving in With His Parents
00:45:54 – Making Bets. Why Dillon Stopped Wholesale to Pursue Software
00:47:01 – How Dillon Met His Wife and Good Limitations VS Bad Limitations
00:48:58 – Life Forcing You Down the Right Path
00:49:30 – How Dillon Makes Tough Decisions
00:51:15 – Having a Loosely Held Vision of Your Ideal Future
00:52:54 – Intentionally Priming Your Psychology
00:53:55 – Your Massively Transformative Purpose, and Peter Diamandis
00:55:44 – Why You’re Making Life Harder Than it Has to Be
00:56:56 – The Optimal Stopping Problem of Marriage, and Ryan Holiday
00:58:35 – Aim for Clarity on Your Goals, Not Efficiency
01:00:39 – Do Things That Don’t Scale, Paul Graham
01:01:24 – Getting Clarity on the Best Use of Your Time
01:04:02 – Defining Success and Knowing When it’s Time to Change Your Definition
01:08:45 – Flow Triggers, and How to be Happier and More Fulfilled
01:11:46 – Downscoping Your Goals
01:13:16 – How to Live Without Regret. The Power of Emotion, and Using Logic as a Tool
01:14:15 – Mimetic Theory and Rene Girard
01:16:09 – Intentionally Choosing Your Models, And Reverse Engineering Success
01:17:55 – How to Live a Better, More Effective Life Through Awareness
01:20:02 – How Dillon Defines Happiness, and What Values Drive His Decision Making
01:25:01 – Setting Clear Expectations, Effective Communication, and Finding Something Sustainable
01:28:14 – How Dillon Knew He Was Ready For Marriage
01:32:56 – Leaning Into Your Gut, Regret Minimization, And Making Better Decisions
01:35:54 – Outro